capitolkat, that's a "Top Cat" recommendation you made and after looking at the many great suggestions, I've settled on Troquet. Here's the reasoning: In the process of doing my research, I found the following review for Troquet:
Troquet A+. That review informed me it's located in the South Coast Plaza Mall, about which I knew nothing before. The bride has this
thing about shopping, and why not have a great meal, followed by some excellent shopping--and should we have had a little too much wine, we can walk it off in the mall and drive safely to the hotel afterwards. Finally, the review says Troquet allows a corkage be paid, which it shows to be $15. I'll confirm that by a call but I have some fantastic wine that I would love to take with us for a meal and that's what I'll plan doing.