I need your help!! I am new at this, and I just moved back to the bay area, California. I'm a relative new-comer to the wine-scene, about 2 years, and my habit is getting progressively more expensive. What I need your help with is that Since I moved back to the bay area, I have been hesitant to just go and visit as many wineries as I can, mainly because my wife is not too fond of traveling the wine country with me. This has made me hesitant in picking any wineries outside of the big boring, mondavi's and beringers of napa. If I could get some serious suggestions, an ultimate list of the best wineries to visit in Napa or Sonoma, I would greatly appreciate it. What I am referring to is not the tour-stop, must-see, for the one-timers, but a definite Wine Lover's trip to Napa and Sonoma. I would greatly appreciate any advice, and so would my wife!!