Thanks everyone for your replies. I can't take all the credit - VM and Lady VM brought the creme brulee (w/ matching Kracher) and chocolate covered fruit. They were VERY patient while my 15-month old was having a bad day.
Board-O: There must of been some flour inside your invite. My guess is the post office is holding it for further examination.
Mishy: I agree with you that switching the 1st two courses would work. If I am not mistaken, champagne and oysters are a "classic" combination.