I'm a little confused, Marshmallow. Are you just looking for a nice bottle of wine to give your husband regardless of vintage, or are you looking for one that is a 2008 vintage?
If the former, give the group a price range and I'm sure you'll get a lot of good suggestions. If the latter, you'll need to wait a bit, since the grapes haven't been grown yet.
Congratulations on the addition to the family!