Don't waste your time at the state stores. Drive across the bridge to Jersey at hit Moore Brothers in Pennsauken, Canal's on Route 38 in Pennsauken, Canal's Bottlestop at the 70/73 circle in Marlton, and even Total Wine in Cherry Hill on Route 38.
Great recs on Jose Garces restaurants. We love Garces Trading Co (byo but they also have a state store inside) as well as Tinto. Village Whiskey is worth the trip as well.
If you want to meet up for dinner in Philly, Lambertville, or even Doylestown, say the word! Have wine, will travel! -mJ