Personally, I think both of you (bman and csm) could pick your words more carefully. Or simply decide not to engage each other. I like you both, but if I only knew you from this thread I'd not have the greatest opinion of either of you.
CSM, you're very good at dropping one sentence inflammatory bombs in this thread.
Bman, CSM's bombs get under your skin too easily and you invariably rise (or sink) to the occasion.
Now both of you go to your rooms and don't come downstairs again until you're ready to shake hands and make up.
But Dad, he started it!!